Not mine. Thank God.
But yesterday were out shopping at a large discount chain, when we saw a little girl walking by herself and calling "Daddy."
I asked her if she was lost, and she said yes, so I took her to the courtesy desk.
She couldn't have been more than 6 years old. She was a sweet kid and very scared.
The employees weren't much help at first. I think they thought she and I were together and had lost a member of our party.
They asked the little girl for her Daddy's name and then paged him. Then, they went back to their work and just left her standing on the other side of the counter.
I wanted to stay until I knew she was OK. So, we chit-chatted and I tried to make her feel more comfortable.
After a few minutes, another employee noticed us standing there and asked if she could help. I explained that the little girl had been separated from her dad. Then, the woman called a manager.
He came out, talked over the counter and asked the little girl about her dad.
"What does he look like?" "I don't know."
"What color hair does he have?" "I don't know."
All of this was done with him standing on the other side of the counter, looking down at her.
So I squatted down to her level and asked, "Was he wearing a hat?" "Yes! It's gray."
"What color shirt was he wearing?" "Orange."
She wasn't able to tell me what color his hair or eyes were, but she did know what he was wearing.
And I got the best reaction when I asked "Is he thin (with my hands together) or big (with my hands far apart)?"
"BIG!" with a big smile.
I turned to tell the manager what I had learned, when a woman came running in crying.
The little girl started crying too. They hugged.
The manager and I -- almost at the same time -- asked the little girl who the woman was. She said it was her mommy.
So, it had a happy ending.
But it made me think. I was scared the whole time I was helping the little girl. Where had her dad gone? What if I hadn't found her and someone else, someone less honest, less helpful, had? Why didn't the employees seem more helpful? What would I do if one of my little ones was missing?
Sophia knows her name, our names, our phone number and our address. But that afternoon, I tested her to see if she knew what George and I were wearing. She did.
I also started trying to teach my cell phone number, in case we get separated.
And I told her that if we ever get separated in a store to find the courtesy desk.
I hope we never need to use these, but she needs to know and the little girl yesterday reminded me of that.